Do not worry, I am not too cocky or overconfident. She lives very close. the reason we want custody, is because she(the ex wife) has tried to keep the kids( a 9 year old girl also)away from my wife and myself.
my son is tired of the way she makes them live in her house. she will not let them be here except on my weekends or when it is good for her to have them here.we know it will be a fight, but without custody, we are at her whim, and she will not compromise at all. my son is tired of the life she gives him. I wish there was a win -win situation….. but there’s not.
I would love to have my daughter also, but she is not old enough to ask the court to come here. any more ideas?
Why are we ‘close minded people’ for pointing out the fact that you are going to take child from his father to live with another man you have made a child with. Ask the man you are to marry if he would like to be taken away from the child he has made with you. If, ‘creating a stable and loving environment for them,’ is your only goal, and to ‘do what is my eyes best for him,’ are that important then why move away from his dad. You also state in this message that you have another 3 year old that is from yet another father, so do you not see a trend here, that you are not only taking one child from a father but two?
I just hope after all of this procreating you have done that you sit down and really think about what is in the interest of the children and stop having kids.
We do not need anymore kids without fathers from your ovaries.